My gratitude to my spiritual master to shower his blessings to write this truth...
All physical (body-based) based relationship is always looking for a new person to see if they can see anything extra from the other person. It is basically an addiction, in other way they never experienced true love. When true love happens looking for a new person will NOT BE THERE. When I was working in Chennai, India, I used to meet some friends who were doing marketing to Time Resort Companies. They had a group of friends who always looked for new relationships every time. It is like telling the same story saying that my wife is not having good character or their girlfriend betrayed them. They tell anything to attract the other person to get intimate, once they had fulfilled their desires then they would move on to other persons. They somehow got into this addiction.
I am not talking about genuine people who have real problems like this. But few people are using this as a mean to jump from one person to another. In reality, they want to taste new the new bodies. It is like seeing a guy or girl and thinking that whether he or she would get a chance...
If somebody gets into this addiction, then he/she will definitely suffer from the following:
- He/she cannot be a truthful person
- He/she never gives importance to true love or a person who truly loves him/her, instead would give a lot importance to newer guys or girls as they would like to get intimate with them
- He/she never grows spiritually since spirituality needs disciplined life
- He/she cheats themselves and cheats others
- He/she does not know how much energy he/she wastes for looking newer partners
- He/she will not get any satisfaction in multiple intimate relationships except getting physical weakness and diseases
- He/she cannot focus on anything as they are caught in this strong lust, and they keep on thinking the same all the time
- They have to tell so many lies
The root cause of the whole problem is strong emotions and they never experienced a true love or spiritual relationships with a person. If true love happens, the thought of experiencing different people will NOT arise.
This is the serious issue with most of youngsters in the modern society. The only possible way to come out this issue is to understand the root cause of this mental pattern and emotions.
Dear friends, understand that:
- Body is the temple, this is the precious God's gift. If something happens to our body, that is it, everything is gone.
- If somebody wants to grow spiritually, understand that touching a body itself means sharing/exchanging the emotions.
- Eventually you will lose all your energy if you roam around continuously.
How to avoid this to happen?
If you find one genuine guy or girl who loves you wholeheartedly then never leave him or her for the sake of Lust or changing people. Instead try to relate to him or her again and again. Every moment is new beginning and everything is new with a person..
Relating is real meditation; once you start relating your partner every time then you will see him or her as a new person all the time.
There should not be any shyness. There should not be any ego clash. If you experience the true love with one person then your whole being will get changed into spiritual. Then only your real life starts..
- True love is eternal and that love will continue throughout your life. He or she will stand with you in all the circumstances. Decide what you want in your life....selfish people or selfless people...
- Love for lust is nothing but pure animal behavior; you will attract only those kinds of animal behavior people in your life. Decide whether you want to elevated person in your life or animal nature person.
-By Saha Nathan - firstname.lastname@example.org
An experienced writer and counselor in relationship management with 15 years of research and development on human relationships and emotions
- Author of a renowned book, CRM: A Step-by-Step Approach, which is prescribed for graduate programs in 25 Indian universities
- Speaks frequently on relationships, and his sessions are broadcast daily on Merina America 24-Hour Tamil Radio (www.merina.com)
- Saha is very passionate about his idols, he practices what he writes.
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