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How to find a Good friend? or How to make and keep friends?

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How to find a Good friend? or How to make and keep friends?

Knowledge will help you to get a good position. Strong physique may help you to look nice but good character comes to you only by associating with good moral friends. When you start mingling with good friends your total attitude will get change. Remember, our Bio memory has got the capacity to observe the qualities from a friend.

Once upon a time a king was searching for a good bridegroom for his daughter but somehow he had been facing many problems to get a right person. One day he called all the astrologer to his palace to find out what is the real problem. After doing all the analysis they came out with a solution that his daughter should marry a saint. Incidentally a thief over heard this conversation, the king asked his minister to find a saint, and in the mean time that thief went and outfitted like a saint sat near by other saints.

The minister came and asked one by one about the King's proposal but no one is willing to marry his last the king also arrived and approached the fake saint. But the fake saint did not know what to do? Because all the saints are not willing to marry the king's proposal then how come he?, so he starts acting like other saints but the King does not have any other option, so he requested the thief, OK, I will give half of my kingdom to you,. Once again the thief soundless, finally the King told him that, I will surrender my whole kingdom to you please think about this and get back to me tomorrow.

Thief was thinking at night, although I acted only one day like a saint, I have got many good things then why shouldn't surrender myself to the existence. He had become a saint and got enlightened.

The morality of this story is whatever may be, you just be with good, high energetic friends then one day everything comes to you as you like. You can lose a bad friend at any time but do not lose a friend with high energy all the time.

If you really want to see the good changes in your life start finding good friends.

How to identify a good friend?

- He/She is constantly expanding consciously and try to be high energy.
- Be responsible for everything happening in his/her life instead of blaming others.
- He/She knows ...Expansion of mind is Bliss and contraction of mind is depression.
- He/She never want to be in depression. He does spiritual Sadhana like Meditation, Yoga and Heavy work out to come of his depression.
- He/She always finds a way to learn.
- He/She never worried about the result but work the current activities with full intensity.
- He/She knows how to grow consciously..
- Never waste a single moment for Inner learning.
- When you are depressed He/She will show you a God or Guru..
- He knows both projection about Himself/Herself to the outer world is an Illusion..
- He/She Knows that Perfection is work..
- He/She always try to do perfection in every actions..
- He/She knows withdraw the senses whenever he/she wants it..
- He/She constantly working on the negative mental patterns and get rid off it..
- He/She knows that how to come back to his/her center and take decisions..
- He/She knows how to ACT but how not to REACT..
- He/She knows Leadership is a state but not a Status..
- He/She is a floating personality..
- He/She never allow the strong emotion disturb in their system..
- He/She knows that Maya is nothing but laziness
- He/she go on working on positive cognitive shift..
- He/She lives with Honesty, Truthfulness, Grateful, and Integrity
- He/She constantly working on to go beyond the emotions..
- He/She always find out the activities that are increasing the love..
- He/She always bless others and be with gratitude..
- He/She knows that communication is nothing but listening from his friends..
- He/She consciously watching his/her thoughts..
- He/She react without affecting the inner self..
- He/She having an inner court to settle down his negative patterns..
- He/She always improve the good qualities whenever they get a chance..
- He/She see the collection of Major bio memories and tract it back. If it is good then encourage them ..if it is bad then clear them..
- He/She knows that he to live without fear and greed.
- What ever they do they do it with full intensity..
- They constantly work for high frequency...

Dear friends, it is very important to know that to whom we interact, to whom we live our life.

Note: You are fortunate enough to get at-least 40% of above mentioned qualities.

About Author
An experienced writer and counselor in relationship management with 15 years of research and development on human relationships and emotions
  • Author of a renowned book, CRM: A Step-by-Step Approach, which is prescribed for graduate programs in 25 Indian universities
  • Speaks frequently on relationships, and his sessions are broadcast daily on Merina America 24-Hour Tamil Radio (
  • Saha is very passionate about his idols, he practices what he writes.

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