Many people get caught into this addiction of multiple physical relationships and they do not know that they get trapped into that addiction.
Recently, I had counseled one of my free life coach sessions. She loves a guy who is already in a married life. Means he is having an extra marital relationship with her. After one year he started having one more additional relationship with another young lady. Means, he has a wife and first girl friend (my client) and second girl friend.
I asked her why do believe that he is only for you. She said that he made her to believe that way that her wife is having some physical issues so that she can not satisfy him...... I told her if a person is not integrating his life and life with his wife and come out of the family bondage without divorcing her then he will jump into many bodies. She got the clue immediately and came back to normal.
I am seeing this kind of problem is happening from both Males and Females.
The changes are happening due to global culture and not able to understand the nature of human beings body and mind.
Let us see how you record your thoughts and replay again and again:
We record everything through five senses (Touching, Seeing, Listening, Tasting and Hearing) and save it in your system. I would say you record it in multiple frequencies. Whenever you tune yourself into that frequency your mind will expand those thoughts and you get those thoughts again.
When you tune into a particular thought or situation again and again that will become a strong mental pattern. This is the first step for an addiction.
How does mind function?
Mind needs something (mostly pleasure), and then plans to achieve that something; processes to achieve that something, experience based on that achievement, then researching the experience and finally record the solution. Mind use senses for those activities.
Starting point of multiple physical relationships:
There are many factors involved in this process but very powerful method is seducing others through an action or conversation. The reason behind this entire acts is to expect some fulfillment to happen in a person's life in physical relationships but it will not happen through physical relationships. That is why again and again they try multiple physical relationships but end up to see nothing.
Remember, deeply rooted engraved memories kindle your hormones again and again. When the hormones get hijacked from your intelligence then anybody will get trapped into multiple physical relationships.
Understand, it is very difficult to come out of this chain of body tasting activities.
First, you spoil yourself.
Second, you will spoil a genuine person who is longing for true love (most of people use pseudo love to attract other person).
Third, this pattern will get rooted into you as a strong mental pattern which you will not know.
Fourth, you will not live a peaceful life at any cost.
Fifth, you will spoil your body through disease and mind through deeply engraved negative memories.
Sixth, your body will get confused which frequency you are operating because you will imbibe other people qualities when it comes to physical merging...
Seventh, you think that you have been enjoying your life without knowing anybody but the base of your mind is Divine only. I would say Divine is acting through mind which is nothing but Maya or illusion. We all connected through Almighty
We will see how to come out of this addiction in next article.
An experienced writer and counselor in relationship management with 15 years of research and development on human relationships and emotions
- Author of a renowned book, CRM: A Step-by-Step Approach, which is prescribed for graduate programs in 25 Indian universities
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